This blog is dedicated to the memory of Mark Romanak. Mark was married to my cousin Mary DeVries, one of only six cousins that I have on the face of this earth. To be honest with anyone who reads this blog, I only met Mark once at my father's funeral. Mark and Mary had built a home in Greenbackville, Virginia with the intention of retiring to it some day. The night that Mark and Mary got back from spending a week in Virginia, Mark experienced a massive stroke and died soon after. I have corresponded with Mary via email for some time. During the course of our correspondence, she always told me that I needed to see and experience their "Place That Love Built" and to visit "The Road To Paradise". It's because of Mary that Marlene and I visited their home in Virginia during the fall of 2008. As I mentioned earlier in this posting, I only met Mark once. But because of Mary's generosity and encouragement, I believe that I have come to know Mark better through this experience. Visiting their home, the environment, the sea shore and all of the other wonderful things that we did, certainly gave us a deeper understanding of who Mark was and what things he enjoyed doing. Thank you for this gift that you have given us, Mary ... Paul and Marlene DeVries
Monday, October 13, 2008
Autumn in Virginia
This blog is dedicated to the memory of Mark Romanak. Mark was married to my cousin Mary DeVries, one of only six cousins that I have on the face of this earth. To be honest with anyone who reads this blog, I only met Mark once at my father's funeral. Mark and Mary had built a home in Greenbackville, Virginia with the intention of retiring to it some day. The night that Mark and Mary got back from spending a week in Virginia, Mark experienced a massive stroke and died soon after. I have corresponded with Mary via email for some time. During the course of our correspondence, she always told me that I needed to see and experience their "Place That Love Built" and to visit "The Road To Paradise". It's because of Mary that Marlene and I visited their home in Virginia during the fall of 2008. As I mentioned earlier in this posting, I only met Mark once. But because of Mary's generosity and encouragement, I believe that I have come to know Mark better through this experience. Visiting their home, the environment, the sea shore and all of the other wonderful things that we did, certainly gave us a deeper understanding of who Mark was and what things he enjoyed doing. Thank you for this gift that you have given us, Mary ... Paul and Marlene DeVries
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Beginning The Trip
Our First Full Day in Virginia
Berlin and Northern Assateague
Anyway, somewhere in our conversation, the bookstore owner brought up Berlin, MD and told us what a wonderful place it was. So today we headed up to Berlin with the idea of going out to the northern part of Assateague. We got to Berlin before lunch and walked through the town. Many lovely shops and wonderful street scenes. It turns out that the movie "Runaway Bride" was filmed here. Evidently there are lots of recognizable scenes in the movie of Berlin. We went to the hotel and got a table on their porch and had a wonderful lunch ... pizza on flatbread and a wonderful salad, something that can be rare in these parts. Oftentimes the salad consists of head lettuce and a tomato. This meal and the salad were delicious!
After lunch we headed for the National Park on Assateague. We purchased a "lifetime pass" for seniors good for any National Park in the United States for $10! We parked the car and rode bikes all around. The scenes on the island were marvelous. We walked the beach as well and saw the pony below who appeared to be rather exhausted from a morning of frolicking and romping along the seashore.
Later in the afternoon, we headed north to Ocean City for a look at what this seaside resort had to offer. This city is quite commercialized and very, very busy with hotel upon hotel. We did board the boardwalk just to see what that was all about. Earlier on the beach we asked a local for a good spot to have something to eat. He directed us to a spot we would never have found. I had shrimp and Marlene of all things had fish and chips. Our total bill was fifteen dollars. It's in a small working class harbor on the outskirts of the city.
Marlene's Birthday
The beach was a wonderful one. There was a myriad of stones, unlike the other beaches we had visited in the area. One other thrill ... a group of porpoises went sailing by as we scoured the beach for treasures. What a great birthday present that I had ordered up for Marlene's birthday. The porpoises don't come cheap. Sometimes they have scheduling issues also.
After spending some time on the beach we headed for Lewes, Delaware. What a beautiful little seashore town. We walked the streets for a while and visited some shops. Later on in the afternoon we visited the small hotel for their happy hour. A small glass of wine and complementary homemade snacks of pate' and hummous were enjoyed.
Total bill ... $10.50 including tip!
Later on in the evening we had a little dinner of roasted chicken back at the home of Mark and Mary. I also managed to secretly purchase an arrangement of birthday flowers while Marlene was busy elsewhere in the store. I got them, ran to the car and put them in the back, then reappeared in the store just as Marlene came into sight.
A Little More of the Birthday
This small garden was in Lewes, Delaware close to the downtown area. In fact we parked our car here and walked a couple blocks to the main street where all the action was.
If you look carefully at this picture below, you can just see the heads of the porpoises as they were making their way south along the beach. As you can tell, they are very close to shore. There was a group of about six. In fact if you enlarge the photo, you can see the dark shapes of the ones who are submerged.


The boardwalk was a wonderful place to sit and watch the shoreline. The breeze from the ocean provided a warmth and a comfort while watching the goings on down by the beach. This beach was the place to be ... at least for Marlene. All the different colored stones made for a wonderful birthday celebration.
A Trip to Smith Island
The trip we took to Smith Island began in the village of Crisfield, Md. We signed on with the Island Belle II, a mail boat that brings not only mail to the island, but tables, chairs, dryers, and a whole load of other things that people living on the island need for their existance. Notice our bikes carefully stowed on the back of the boat and covered with canvas and lashed to the railing. On the trip over to the island, I sat next to the dryer and Marlene sat behind someones coffee table.
We met an island native on the trip to Smith Island. He had come into town for provisions at the local Wal Mart. During our conversation I asked him for a good recommendation for crab cakes. He said ... " ... there are some fancy places where they charge you for the view but the food is'nt that good. Go to Rukes and you'll have the best crab cakes on the Bay". He was right and not only that, it was reasonable.
There are three small communities on Smith Island. One is the community where the boats dock. The second is on the same main island and was easy to reach with our bikes. The third community is on a separate island and is reachable only by another boat. Another thing we did is to go to the Smith Island Cake Co where they make 10 layer cakes that are quite famous and quite good. We took our cake and coffee and sat down by the inlet to the island watching the goings on and enjoying our delicious cake.
Here's a picture of Rukes. Does'nt look like much, huh? Great food!
More Smith Island Pics
Marlene was always eager to keep moving so we would'nt miss anything. Here we are on the main street of Ewell, her in the front. Many cozy small houses lined the streets and only an occasional car that was travelling to who knows where. I think some folks simply fire up the old Jesse just to take a spin around the island and back home.
Marlene spotted this little garden scene on the main street. The sentiments are wonderful and the flowers were very beautiful.
This scene below is of a small coffee house located on the outskirts of the town and it appeared they had many, many things to offer. If you "click" on the picture you can read the most amusing things that this small shop posted for their customers.
This scene below is of a small coffee house located on the outskirts of the town and it appeared they had many, many things to offer. If you "click" on the picture you can read the most amusing things that this small shop posted for their customers.
A Day on the Virginia Coast
We then headed south towards Cape Charles. Marlene had another opportunity to visit the beach and take advantage of shells, beach glass and anything else that would provide a memory. We biked in this small town as well and wended our way to the end of the pier where fishermen were landing small perch.
The day was magical. On our way back north we talked about supper. We had fallen in love with Onancoke. The restaurant was called Mallards and we made it our supper destination. Another wonderful meal. At this time of year there is not the busyness of the summer. A few others were having dinner but it was all very quiet. As the shadows began to darken the view, small lights from the homes on the penninsulas began to appear. The sun sank in the west over Chesapeake Bay and finished the evening with a beautiful magenta sky.
The Chincoteague Oyster Festival
In addition the food was fantastic. You can see some of the choices on our handy Chincoteague carrying trays. There were steamed oysters, oysters on the half shell, oyster fritters, fried oysters, large bowls of crab, clam fritters, oyster stew, hot dogs, soda pop, coffee, and a few other things that I can't remember.
We hiked the beach and spent some time just sitting there on the shore and admiring all the things to see ... waves, terns, gulls, washed ashore shells and sailboats on the horizon. This picture was taken at exactly 3:26 in the afternoon.
What a wonderful way to end a wonderful vacation. We even stopped at Ray's Shanty on the way back for a scallop take out dinner.
The Trip Home
Nessun Dorma
Nessun Dorma of course is an aria that was made famous by Luchiano Pavarrotti. It is from Puccini's Turandot. It was also one of Mark Romanak's favorite pieces. That's why it's playing on this blogspot. Below is the English translation for the work ...
Nessun Dorma
Nobody shall sleep!...
Nobody shall sleep!
Even you, o Princess,
in your cold room,
watch the stars,
that tremble with love and with hope.
But my secret is hidden within me,
my name no one shall know ...
No! ... No! ...
On your mouth I will tell it when the light shines.
And my kiss will dissolve the silence that makes you mine! ...
(No one will know his name and we must, alas, die.)
Vanish, oh night!
Set, stars! Set, stars!
At dawn, I will win! I will win! I will win!
Nessun Dorma
Nobody shall sleep!...
Nobody shall sleep!
Even you, o Princess,
in your cold room,
watch the stars,
that tremble with love and with hope.
But my secret is hidden within me,
my name no one shall know ...
No! ... No! ...
On your mouth I will tell it when the light shines.
And my kiss will dissolve the silence that makes you mine! ...
(No one will know his name and we must, alas, die.)
Vanish, oh night!
Set, stars! Set, stars!
At dawn, I will win! I will win! I will win!
Friday, October 3, 2008
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